This is a
shout out to Atishi Wahi Singh. In
choosing to add Wahi and Singh to her
name, I am also addressing her parents,
Tripta Wahi and Vijay Singh,very dear friends and senior colleagues at Delhi University. I am sorry you are in
this place, Atishi. To you, Atishi, I will not say that elections are about
participation, not about winning, because it would have been wonderful had you
won, for then you would have taken our hopes and aspirations ( with regard to education and learning and schooling ) to Parliament and availed of the opportunity
to strengthen and reform and transform education , which lies in shambles, through the length and breadth of
this country. So your loss is a huge loss for those of us who believe in the
transformative and empowering possibilities that holistic education offers.
It is
unfortunate that the constituency that you wished to represent did not vote for
you in entirety. I know this must hurt and that it also erodes a sense of self-worth,
because as the daughter of university teachers, with enough academic
credentials, the world was your oyster and there was no dearth of opportunities
available for you. You chose to put aside the comfort and pleasures of a
privileged life and enter into the public domain which requires incredible
courage. You have enough credentials for representing the cause of education in
India as well as an accompanying
imagination and sensitivity, so do not think otherwise at any point.
For any
woman to have a political life anywhere
in the world, intelligence and vision and clarity and imagination by themselves
is not enough (although , as one has seen , men with none of these qualities are the ones who thrive in the
system). Women need to have a very strong solar plexus Atishi, maybe ten times
as strong as the solar plexuses of those
women who venture out of their homes into a life beyond, because believe you me, that is where all the ugly
punches land, always invariably below the belt, and cause
enormous damage as they smash
through living tissues and organs. You fought the good fight Atishi, and
all those women and men who spoke up for you when that vile pamphlet was
circulated and when rumours were spread about your being Jewish, would concur.
However
Atishi, the nature of the battlefield on which you stood your ground did not
change. The world of ideas,( including
those voiced by Marx and
Lenin, whose names your fond parents
yoked together to create your idealized
surname , because they believed that the world needed to become an inclusive and equal space) has always had to contend with
recalcitrant thought processes and
calcified social and cultural practices. Atishi, women live redundant lives in our
world ; they can be stoned to death by men for violating imagined codes. Only an
extraordinary leader, also a statutory
male, can ask the casters of stones to introspect before stoning a
hapless woman to death.. it is very long
since the world has seen any such saviour. Meanwhile learned women have
burnt worldwide as witches. or have been reviled and exiled from their immediate communities. Indian grandmothers have continued to say to defiant granddaughters, “Look at all that Sita had to suffer! If she could
bear them despite being a princess, surely you should learn to adjust.”
I want to
remind you Atishi that in our own country, Maryada Purushottam Raam drove his pregnant wife away, in deference to
public opinion, and continues to be revered. Gautama Buddha, abandoned his wife
and new born child on a secret mission, and then chose a life, he did not want women
to participate in. Our country is named Bharat, after Shakuntala’s son, and she
in both Vyasa’a version and in Kalidasa’s had to speak up for her child’s
rights and defend her morality, while she was being publicly humiliated. Kalidasa let her
weep and even stole from her power of speech that Vyasa had initially
given her. Do not therefore be surprised if mediocre men go on
television to ask why your husband is not standing by your side and supporting
your candidature. Remember, that this is
how the double standard works. Male politicians can abandon their wives, never
bring them up for discussion or contribute to their welfare but no male will say ..”But where is his wife.? Why is
she not standing next to him validating his candidature.”
You have had
to grapple with patriarchy and sexism and misogyny of the vilest kind. It is
part of the trajectory of being a woman. Over and above this, Atishi, you have
had to deal with little resources and word of mouth campaigning in a hostile
and cash rich arena. So many of us are not clear even now how the new EVM technology works or whether
it makes for an even playing field. So
do not let this debacle leave you dispirited.
Thank you for speaking for us and continue your work as you have been
doing over the past few years. Many of
us would be happy to pitch in and add our little bit to further the cause of
learning and wellness in children. Please let us know how we can help. Here is
wishing you more of that unstoppable courage and large-hearted commitment. Do continue to
inspire us with your innovative and imaginative ideas and
projects.